{"id":30303,"date":"2016-05-27T16:00:09","date_gmt":"2016-05-27T22:00:09","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.crescentcityjewishnews.com\/?p=30303"},"modified":"2016-05-30T08:28:50","modified_gmt":"2016-05-30T14:28:50","slug":"we-need-to-put-the-yizkor-back-into-memorial-day","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.crescentcityjewishnews.com\/blog\/we-need-to-put-the-yizkor-back-into-memorial-day\/","title":{"rendered":"We need to put the Yizkor back into Memorial Day"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>By JERRY SILVERMAN<\/p>\n<div>\n<p>NEW YORK (JTA) \u2014 In Israel, when the two-minute siren sounds at\u00a0<span class=\"\" tabindex=\"0\"><span class=\"\">11 a.m.<\/span><\/span>\u00a0on Yom Hazikaron, the Jewish state\u2019s Memorial Day, the nation comes to a halt. As we saw just two weeks ago, cars on streets and highways pull over, and drivers and passengers get out of their vehicles to stand and observe a moment of silence. Shoppers halt in the aisles of stores. Workers stand next to their desks. Places of entertainment close for the day.<\/p>\n<p><span class=\"im\">In a nation as tiny as Israel, nearly everyone has lost a family member or a friend to war. It is a deeply personal day.<br \/>\n<\/span><\/p>\n<div id=\"attachment_30341\" style=\"width: 310px\" class=\"wp-caption alignleft\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.crescentcityjewishnews.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/05\/memorial-day.jpg\" target=\"_blank\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-30341\" class=\"wp-image-30341 size-medium lazyload\" data-src=\"https:\/\/www.crescentcityjewishnews.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/05\/memorial-day-300x224.jpg\" alt=\"memorial day\" width=\"300\" height=\"224\" data-srcset=\"https:\/\/www.crescentcityjewishnews.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/05\/memorial-day-300x224.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.crescentcityjewishnews.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/05\/memorial-day.jpg 960w\" data-sizes=\"(max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" src=\"data:image\/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAAAAACH5BAEKAAEALAAAAAABAAEAAAICTAEAOw==\" style=\"--smush-placeholder-width: 300px; --smush-placeholder-aspect-ratio: 300\/224;\" \/><noscript><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-30341\" class=\"wp-image-30341 size-medium\" src=\"https:\/\/www.crescentcityjewishnews.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/05\/memorial-day-300x224.jpg\" alt=\"memorial day\" width=\"300\" height=\"224\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.crescentcityjewishnews.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/05\/memorial-day-300x224.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.crescentcityjewishnews.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/05\/memorial-day.jpg 960w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/noscript><\/a><\/p>\n<p id=\"caption-attachment-30341\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Flags planted by Jewish War Veterans of the United States Cleveland Post 14 at Zion Memorial Park in Bedford, Ohio, in honor of Memorial Day, 2015. (Jewish War Veterans of the United States, via Facebook)<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<p>Contrast that with Memorial Day here at home, which for most Americans is more likely to bring to mind barbecues, mattress sales and a three-day weekend that marks the unofficial start of summer than the sacrifice of more than a million service members who have died fighting our nation\u2019s wars, from the War of Independence to Iraq and Afghanistan.<\/p>\n<p>Some of us may watch a parade or hang an American flag, but for many, perhaps most, of us, the day\u2019s true meaning is at most a fleeting thought. How many of us are even aware that like Israel, the United States since 2000 has had its own legally mandated National Moment of Remembrance, at\u00a0<span class=\"\" tabindex=\"0\"><span class=\"\">3 p.m.<\/span><\/span>\u00a0each Memorial Day?<\/p>\n<p>Canadians seem to do it right, with Remembrance Day each\u00a0<span class=\"\" tabindex=\"0\"><span class=\"\">Nov. 11<\/span><\/span>. Big ceremonies take place in all of the provincial capitals, with an especially large one at the National War Memorial in Ottawa, invariably featuring the prime minister and the governor general. Downtowns are closed, those attending observe two minutes of silence between gun salutes at exactly\u00a0<span class=\"\" tabindex=\"0\"><span class=\"\">11 a.m.<\/span><\/span>\u00a0and everyone wears red poppies. And while the hanging of large bunches of poppies by the government and politicians seems to start earlier and earlier each year, it\u2019s still a far cry from the crass commercialization of Memorial Day weekends happening to their south.<br \/>\n<span class=\"im\"><br \/>\nPerhaps the dissonance has something to do with the history of Memorial Day in the United States. The first Memorial Days, then known as Decoration Days, took place following the Civil War, with tributes held for fallen soldiers and flowers placed on their gravesites. In 1868, Maj. Gen. John Logan declared that Decoration Day would be\u00a0<span class=\"\" tabindex=\"0\"><span class=\"\">May 30<\/span><\/span>: \u201cLet no neglect, no ravages of time, testify to the present or to the coming generations that we have forgotten as a people the cost of a free and undivided republic.\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span class=\"im\">Subsequently, ceremonies took place throughout the country on\u00a0<span class=\"\" tabindex=\"0\"><span class=\"\">May 30<\/span><\/span>, but it wasn\u2019t until 1971 that Congress officially declared Memorial Day a national holiday \u2014 soon moved to the last Monday of May.<\/span><\/p>\n<p>Perhaps the dissonance is because, compared to past periods, today relatively few Americans have close connections to anyone now in the military, let alone anyone killed during recent service.<\/p>\n<p>That\u2019s no excuse, though, for us not to\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/vimeo.com\/112862082\" target=\"_blank\">remember and learn<\/a>\u00a0about those who sacrificed their lives for their nation, a country that has allowed Jews to flourish and succeed both individually and as a community.<\/p>\n<p>We as a Jewish community are blessed to be living in a time when we can worship freely and live in a democratic country that ensures this right. On the yahrzeit of a family member we light a candle in remembrance; on a chag we recite Yizkor. This year, let\u2019s light a yahrzeit candle in memory of those who laid down their lives to ensure that we have the freedoms that we may take for granted.<\/p>\n<p>This Memorial Day, this Canadian Remembrance Day, let\u2019s learn the names and histories of all those in each of our communities who gave their lives for freedom \u2014 Jews and non-Jews alike \u2014 and let us also join to say Kaddish for them. And, at just the right hour, let\u2019s stop what we are doing for a moment or two, so that their memories may be a blessing for all that we as Jewish North Americans enjoy.<\/p>\n<p><em>(Jerry Silverman is president &amp; CEO of The Jewish Federations of North America.)<\/em><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<div style=\"padding-bottom:20px; padding-top:10px;\" class=\"hupso-share-buttons\"><!-- Hupso Share Buttons - https:\/\/www.hupso.com\/share\/ --><a class=\"hupso_toolbar\" href=\"https:\/\/www.hupso.com\/share\/\"><img decoding=\"async\" data-src=\"https:\/\/static.hupso.com\/share\/buttons\/share-medium.png\" style=\"border:0px; padding-top: 5px; float:left;\" alt=\"Share Button\" src=\"data:image\/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAAAAACH5BAEKAAEALAAAAAABAAEAAAICTAEAOw==\" class=\"lazyload\" \/><noscript><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/static.hupso.com\/share\/buttons\/share-medium.png\" style=\"border:0px; padding-top: 5px; float:left;\" alt=\"Share Button\"\/><\/noscript><\/a><script type=\"text\/javascript\">var hupso_services_t=new Array(\"Twitter\",\"Facebook\",\"Google Plus\",\"Pinterest\",\"Linkedin\",\"Tumblr\",\"Email\");var hupso_background_t=\"#EAF4FF\";var hupso_border_t=\"#66CCFF\";var hupso_toolbar_size_t=\"medium\";var hupso_image_folder_url = \"\";var hupso_url_t=\"\";var hupso_title_t=\"We%20need%20to%20put%20the%20Yizkor%20back%20into%20Memorial%20Day\";<\/script><script type=\"text\/javascript\" src=\"https:\/\/static.hupso.com\/share\/js\/share_toolbar.js\"><\/script><!-- Hupso Share Buttons --><\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"","protected":false},"author":3,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"ngg_post_thumbnail":0,"footnotes":""},"categories":[22],"tags":[8790,8795,6948,8788],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.crescentcityjewishnews.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/30303"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.crescentcityjewishnews.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.crescentcityjewishnews.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.crescentcityjewishnews.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/3"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.crescentcityjewishnews.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=30303"}],"version-history":[{"count":4,"href":"https:\/\/www.crescentcityjewishnews.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/30303\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":30343,"href":"https:\/\/www.crescentcityjewishnews.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/30303\/revisions\/30343"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.crescentcityjewishnews.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=30303"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.crescentcityjewishnews.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=30303"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.crescentcityjewishnews.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=30303"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}