{"id":44461,"date":"2018-08-26T15:33:59","date_gmt":"2018-08-26T21:33:59","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.crescentcityjewishnews.com\/?p=44461"},"modified":"2018-08-27T10:14:40","modified_gmt":"2018-08-27T16:14:40","slug":"crossing-delancey-now-30-years-old-was-the-ultimate-jewish-rom-com","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.crescentcityjewishnews.com\/blog\/crossing-delancey-now-30-years-old-was-the-ultimate-jewish-rom-com\/","title":{"rendered":"Crossing Delancey,&#8217; now 30 years old, was the ultimate Jewish rom-com"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>By STEPHEN SILVER&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><strong>Warning:&nbsp;<\/strong><em>There are spoilers about \u201cCrossing Delancey\u201d below. However, they aren\u2019t very unexpected, and they don\u2019t take away from the enjoyment of this delightful film.<\/em><\/p>\n<p>(JTA) \u2014 The movies, at least in contemporary times, don\u2019t have enough great stories of outwardly Jewish love. That\u2019s one of the many reasons why \u201cCrossing Delancey,\u201d the classic 1988 romantic comedy that arrived in theaters 30 years ago this week, remains a cinematic treat worth revisiting.<\/p>\n<div id=\"attachment_44490\" style=\"width: 310px\" class=\"wp-caption alignleft\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.crescentcityjewishnews.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/delancey1.jpg\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-44490\" class=\"wp-image-44490 size-medium lazyload\" data-src=\"https:\/\/www.crescentcityjewishnews.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/delancey1-300x295.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"300\" height=\"295\" data-srcset=\"https:\/\/www.crescentcityjewishnews.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/delancey1-300x295.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.crescentcityjewishnews.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/delancey1-768x755.jpg 768w, https:\/\/www.crescentcityjewishnews.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/delancey1-1024x1006.jpg 1024w\" data-sizes=\"(max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" src=\"data:image\/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAAAAACH5BAEKAAEALAAAAAABAAEAAAICTAEAOw==\" style=\"--smush-placeholder-width: 300px; --smush-placeholder-aspect-ratio: 300\/295;\" \/><noscript><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-44490\" class=\"wp-image-44490 size-medium\" src=\"https:\/\/www.crescentcityjewishnews.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/delancey1-300x295.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"300\" height=\"295\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.crescentcityjewishnews.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/delancey1-300x295.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.crescentcityjewishnews.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/delancey1-768x755.jpg 768w, https:\/\/www.crescentcityjewishnews.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/delancey1-1024x1006.jpg 1024w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/noscript><\/a><\/p>\n<p id=\"caption-attachment-44490\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Peter Riegert holding Amy Irving in front of his store in a scene from the film &#8216;Crossing Delancey&#8217;, 1988. (Photo by Warner Brothers\/Getty Images)<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<p>Much like the previous year\u2019s \u201cDirty Dancing<em>,<\/em>\u201d \u201cCrossing Delancey\u201d &#8212; directed by Joan Micklin Silver and adapted from a play by Susan Sandler &#8212; is an enjoyable, crowd-pleasing romance involving Jewish characters. Like countless other movies before and since, it involves a New York love triangle in which the heroine faces a choice between two very different men.<\/p>\n<p>But unlike most of those movies, the dilemma ends with a Jewish couple.<\/p>\n<p>Furthermore, it doubles as a bittersweet ode to the city\u2019s Lower East Side neighborhood, which even just 30 years ago was a completely different world, still ethnically Jewish and full of little old Jewish mom-and-pop shops.<\/p>\n<p>Amy Irving stars in the film as Isabelle \u201cIzzy\u201d Grossman, a single Jewish woman in her early 30s who\u2019s under pressure to marry and have babies from her hilarious old-world bubbe Ida (played by the Yiddish theater star Reizl Bozyk). An employee at a Lower East Side bookstore frequented by big-time authors, Izzy has aspirations to rise in the New York literary world a bit further uptown.<\/p>\n<p>She soon finds herself with a pair of romantic prospects: One is Anton Maes&nbsp;(Jeroen Krabb\u00e9), an urbane, successful European author who is, it\u2019s largely implied, a non-Jew. He wants to simultaneously seduce Izzy and hire her as his assistant. (Ironically, in real life Krabb\u00e9&nbsp;<a href=\"https:\/\/nypost.com\/2000\/09\/16\/isabella-rossellini-goes-into-training-to-play-a-jewish-mother-weighty-cultural-baggage\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">had a Jewish mother<\/a>&nbsp;who lost most of her family in the Holocaust.)<\/p>\n<p>The other, introduced to her by neighborhood matchmaker Hannah Mandelbaum (Sylvia Miles) is Sam \u201cThe Pickle Man\u201d Posner (Peter Riegert), a Delancey Street pickle salesman who dotes on her \u2014 and is very much a Jew.<\/p>\n<p>Will Izzy go with the guy who represents fame, financial security and respectability? Or will she choose the Jewish fellow, who offers none of those things but is charming and really likes her?<\/p>\n<div id=\"attachment_44489\" style=\"width: 310px\" class=\"wp-caption alignright\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.crescentcityjewishnews.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/delancey2.jpg\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-44489\" class=\"wp-image-44489 size-medium lazyload\" data-src=\"https:\/\/www.crescentcityjewishnews.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/delancey2-300x214.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"300\" height=\"214\" data-srcset=\"https:\/\/www.crescentcityjewishnews.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/delancey2-300x214.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.crescentcityjewishnews.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/delancey2-768x549.jpg 768w, https:\/\/www.crescentcityjewishnews.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/delancey2-1024x732.jpg 1024w\" data-sizes=\"(max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" src=\"data:image\/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAAAAACH5BAEKAAEALAAAAAABAAEAAAICTAEAOw==\" style=\"--smush-placeholder-width: 300px; --smush-placeholder-aspect-ratio: 300\/214;\" \/><noscript><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-44489\" class=\"wp-image-44489 size-medium\" src=\"https:\/\/www.crescentcityjewishnews.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/delancey2-300x214.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"300\" height=\"214\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.crescentcityjewishnews.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/delancey2-300x214.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.crescentcityjewishnews.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/delancey2-768x549.jpg 768w, https:\/\/www.crescentcityjewishnews.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/delancey2-1024x732.jpg 1024w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/noscript><\/a><\/p>\n<p id=\"caption-attachment-44489\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Sylvia Miles (foreground) and Reizl Bozyk (background) enjoy playing matchmakers to Amy Irving and Peter Riegert in a scene from the film &#8216;Crossing Delancey&#8217;, 1988. (Photo by Warner Brothers\/Getty Images)<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<p>As the film progresses, it\u2019s hard to imagine Izzy choosing Anton. He\u2019s only in a handful of scenes, and doesn&#8217;t share the strong chemistry with Izzy like Sam. Not to mention that Sam is a working-class underdog compared to the rich writer.<\/p>\n<p>The romantic comedy genre has never prioritized putting Jewish characters together. The likely reason is that conflict is a natural part of storytelling, as is matching people who are different from one another and telling the stories that come out of the relationship. In nine years of \u201cSeinfeld,\u201d Jerry had&nbsp;<a href=\"http:\/\/kramersapartment.com\/jerry\/jerry-seinfelds-girlfriends\/#Rachel\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">one<\/a>&nbsp;only girlfriend who was clearly identified as Jewish.<\/p>\n<p>But at the end of \u201cCrossing Delancey,\u201d the viewer is left believing that the improbable Jewish couple \u2014 the ambitious bibliophile and the pickle man \u2014 are going to give it a shot.<\/p>\n<p>There are other aspects of the film that deviate from the norm. Riegert\u2019s character is particularly interesting: The Pickle Man is no schlemiel \u2014 he\u2019s handsome, reasonably well-dressed and defies Jewish stereotypes, unlike Izzy\u2019s grandmother or the yenta. Sam speaks in dense, witty monologues, much like other leading male romantic interests of the time period \u2014 see Billy Crystal\u2019s Harry in \u201cWhen Harry Met Sally\u201d and John Cusack\u2019s philosophical Lloyd Dobler in \u201cSay Anything,\u201d both from 1989, for other examples. Sam is also a working-class Jew, something rarely seen on the big screen.<\/p>\n<p>Beyond that, Sam\u2019s Jewish identity is anything but boilerplate &#8212; neither secular nor pious, but a very American Jewish hybrid. The viewer can tell&nbsp; that he clearly isn\u2019t Orthodox. Yet he tells Izzy that he \u201cmade a special bracha\u201d and \u201csaid the prayer for the planting of new trees\u201d before their first official date.&nbsp;The line marks him as someone clearly very religious on his own terms. He doesn\u2019t attend synagogue every day, or maybe even every week, but he owns a strong and customized Jewish identity.<\/p>\n<p>(It\u2019s worth noting that Riegert, whose career has spanned roles from \u201cAnimal House\u201d to \u201cThe Sopranos,\u201d is Jewish. Irving&#8217;s father was Jewish, and she was married to Steven Spielberg at the time \u201cCrossing Delancey\u201d was released.)<\/p>\n<p>Beyond showing off the Jewish Lower East Side, the film is an outstanding travelogue of late &#8217;80s New York City, which doesn\u2019t resemble the \u201c<a href=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/watch?v=MV4cgs-bPic\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Warriors<\/a>\u201d-style hellhole that\u2019s often depicted, but isn\u2019t quite &#8220;Sex and the City,&#8221; either. Note especially the famed Papaya hot dog store scene, one of the movie&#8217;s great cross-cultural New York musical moments.<\/p>\n<p>In the end, the film is about tradition meeting modernity. Izzy is a modern woman who doesn\u2019t want to be tied down, while Sam is tied to the old neighborhood and represents a comfortably ethnic New York Jewishness. The coming-together of the two could feel forced, as if to make a metaphorical point. Instead the film treats them as two different Jewish individuals who willingly choose each other.<\/p>\n<p>In an age when the battles over intermarriage and Jewish demographics are as intense as ever, as love becomes something to argue about, it\u2019s refreshing to go back to \u201cCrossing Delancey,\u201d a timeless, warm tale of authentic Jewish romance.<\/p>\n<div style=\"padding-bottom:20px; padding-top:10px;\" class=\"hupso-share-buttons\"><!-- Hupso Share Buttons - https:\/\/www.hupso.com\/share\/ --><a class=\"hupso_toolbar\" href=\"https:\/\/www.hupso.com\/share\/\"><img decoding=\"async\" data-src=\"https:\/\/static.hupso.com\/share\/buttons\/share-medium.png\" style=\"border:0px; padding-top: 5px; float:left;\" alt=\"Share Button\" src=\"data:image\/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAAAAACH5BAEKAAEALAAAAAABAAEAAAICTAEAOw==\" class=\"lazyload\" \/><noscript><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/static.hupso.com\/share\/buttons\/share-medium.png\" style=\"border:0px; padding-top: 5px; float:left;\" alt=\"Share Button\"\/><\/noscript><\/a><script type=\"text\/javascript\">var hupso_services_t=new Array(\"Twitter\",\"Facebook\",\"Google Plus\",\"Pinterest\",\"Linkedin\",\"Tumblr\",\"Email\");var hupso_background_t=\"#EAF4FF\";var hupso_border_t=\"#66CCFF\";var hupso_toolbar_size_t=\"medium\";var hupso_image_folder_url = \"\";var hupso_url_t=\"\";var hupso_title_t=\"Crossing%20Delancey%2C%27%20now%2030%20years%20old%2C%20was%20the%20ultimate%20Jewish%20rom-com\";<\/script><script type=\"text\/javascript\" src=\"https:\/\/static.hupso.com\/share\/js\/share_toolbar.js\"><\/script><!-- Hupso Share Buttons --><\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"","protected":false},"author":3,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"ngg_post_thumbnail":0,"footnotes":""},"categories":[7139],"tags":[9551,8790,8795,8788,494],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.crescentcityjewishnews.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/44461"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.crescentcityjewishnews.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.crescentcityjewishnews.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.crescentcityjewishnews.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/3"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.crescentcityjewishnews.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=44461"}],"version-history":[{"count":3,"href":"https:\/\/www.crescentcityjewishnews.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/44461\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":44492,"href":"https:\/\/www.crescentcityjewishnews.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/44461\/revisions\/44492"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.crescentcityjewishnews.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=44461"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.crescentcityjewishnews.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=44461"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.crescentcityjewishnews.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=44461"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}