{"id":52321,"date":"2019-12-19T23:35:09","date_gmt":"2019-12-20T05:35:09","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.crescentcityjewishnews.com\/?p=52321"},"modified":"2019-12-19T23:35:09","modified_gmt":"2019-12-20T05:35:09","slug":"off-the-pulpit-end-goals-and-goals-without-end","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.crescentcityjewishnews.com\/blog\/off-the-pulpit-end-goals-and-goals-without-end\/","title":{"rendered":"Off the Pulpit: End goals and goals without end"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>By RABBI DAVID WOLPE<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.crescentcityjewishnews.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/01\/Wolpe_edt.jpg\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignleft wp-image-35320 size-thumbnail lazyload\" data-src=\"https:\/\/www.crescentcityjewishnews.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/01\/Wolpe_edt-150x150.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"150\" height=\"150\" data-srcset=\"https:\/\/www.crescentcityjewishnews.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/01\/Wolpe_edt-150x150.jpg 150w, https:\/\/www.crescentcityjewishnews.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/01\/Wolpe_edt-350x350.jpg 350w\" data-sizes=\"(max-width: 150px) 100vw, 150px\" src=\"data:image\/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAAAAACH5BAEKAAEALAAAAAABAAEAAAICTAEAOw==\" style=\"--smush-placeholder-width: 150px; --smush-placeholder-aspect-ratio: 150\/150;\" \/><noscript><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignleft wp-image-35320 size-thumbnail\" src=\"https:\/\/www.crescentcityjewishnews.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/01\/Wolpe_edt-150x150.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"150\" height=\"150\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.crescentcityjewishnews.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/01\/Wolpe_edt-150x150.jpg 150w, https:\/\/www.crescentcityjewishnews.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/01\/Wolpe_edt-350x350.jpg 350w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 150px) 100vw, 150px\" \/><\/noscript><\/a>There is a problem with the word \u201ctoldot.\u201d It usually means children, or perhaps generations. But when the Torah says \u201cThese are the toldot of Jacob: Joseph\u201d (<em>Genesis<\/em> Ch. 37) it does not list all of Jacob\u2019s children.<\/p>\n<p>There are two different kinds of life goals. One is achievable and has an ending. If your wish is to buy a certain house or to get a certain job, once it is accomplished your goal is complete. Many people, especially in mid-life, suffer a crisis less because they haven\u2019t achieved their goals and more because they have, and the pursuit proved more satisfying than the attainment.<\/p>\n<p>The second sort of goals has no end. Becoming a good person, building a relationship with a child rather than just having one, learning Torah \u2013 these are goals that do not have a clear finish line. You can spend your entire life seeking to be more educated and never be \u2018done.\u2019<\/p>\n<p>Perhaps \u2018toldot\u2019 is intended to signal not Jacob\u2019s achieved goal \u2013 the birth of children \u2013 but his continuing quest \u2013 shaping them into a people, Israel. 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