{"id":59452,"date":"2021-02-07T00:39:23","date_gmt":"2021-02-07T06:39:23","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.crescentcityjewishnews.com\/?p=59452"},"modified":"2021-02-07T00:39:23","modified_gmt":"2021-02-07T06:39:23","slug":"the-ways-of-torah-are-peaceful-why-football-presents-a-dilemma-for-american-jews","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.crescentcityjewishnews.com\/blog\/the-ways-of-torah-are-peaceful-why-football-presents-a-dilemma-for-american-jews\/","title":{"rendered":"\u2018The ways of Torah are peaceful\u2019: Why football presents a dilemma for American Jews"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>By GABE FRIEDMAN<\/p>\n<p>(JTA) \u2014 Rabbi Josh Feigelson remembers the moment that football lost its magic for him.<\/p>\n<div id=\"attachment_59453\" style=\"width: 310px\" class=\"wp-caption alignleft\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.crescentcityjewishnews.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/2-2-21-kaepernick-scaled.jpg\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-59453\" class=\"wp-image-59453 size-medium lazyload\" data-src=\"https:\/\/www.crescentcityjewishnews.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/2-2-21-kaepernick-300x200.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"300\" height=\"200\" data-srcset=\"https:\/\/www.crescentcityjewishnews.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/2-2-21-kaepernick-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.crescentcityjewishnews.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/2-2-21-kaepernick-1024x683.jpg 1024w\" data-sizes=\"(max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" src=\"data:image\/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAAAAACH5BAEKAAEALAAAAAABAAEAAAICTAEAOw==\" style=\"--smush-placeholder-width: 300px; --smush-placeholder-aspect-ratio: 300\/200;\" \/><noscript><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-59453\" class=\"wp-image-59453 size-medium\" src=\"https:\/\/www.crescentcityjewishnews.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/2-2-21-kaepernick-300x200.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"300\" height=\"200\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.crescentcityjewishnews.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/2-2-21-kaepernick-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.crescentcityjewishnews.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/2-2-21-kaepernick-1024x683.jpg 1024w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/noscript><\/a><\/p>\n<p id=\"caption-attachment-59453\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Colin Kaepernick, No. 7, kneels with his teammate Eric Reid during the national anthem prior to a game on Sept. 1, 2016. (Michael Zagaris\/San Francisco 49ers\/Getty Images)<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<p>It was Oct. 20, 2013, and Feigelson was eating dinner with his family at Ken\u2019s Diner, a kosher restaurant in Skokie, the Chicago suburb where they live. A TV was playing a football game between the Green Bay Packers and the Cleveland Browns.<\/p>\n<p>Feigelson, who grew up in the football-crazed college town of Ann Arbor, Michigan, was a longtime fan of the sport, and his then preteen kids had taken up the mantle, participating in fantasy football leagues and following news about the NFL\u2019s 32 different teams.<\/p>\n<p>So they were watching closely when the Packers\u2019 Jermichael Finley, a 6-foot-5 tight end weighing close to 250 pounds, was hit so hard by an opposing player that he dropped limply to the turf. While the others around him picked up the fumbled ball and finished the play, Finley lay on his side, unable to move. He was eventually taken off the field on a stretcher, and doctors diagnosed his injury as a spinal cord contusion stemming from a hit to the head and neck \u2014 essentially, a few of his vertebrae had jammed too close together. He has since mostly recovered, but he never played in another NFL game.<\/p>\n<p>To Feigelson\u2019s surprise, Finley\u2019s injury didn\u2019t register with his kids.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cThey were like, \u2018Whoa, that was an amazing hit!\u2019 And it\u2019s like, this guy just potentially lost his life. I mean, he certainly ended his career, and he\u2019s got kids,\u201d said Feigelson, the executive director of the Institute for Jewish Spirituality. \u201cI thought, \u2018No, I can\u2019t say that, there\u2019s nothing to marvel at here.\u2019 And I could feel it\u2026 something woke up for me.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Feigelson added, \u201cIt\u2019s a beautiful game. But what we\u2019ve all become more aware of, as in so many other areas of our lives, is that there\u2019s all this stuff that we haven\u2019t allowed ourselves to see. And I think it is a Jewish value to allow ourselves to be conscious of that and to reckon with \u2014 is this a price we\u2019re willing to pay? And can we really suffer that level of cognitive dissonance, that this is such a violent sport?\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Feigelson is not alone in the struggle to reconcile his Jewish values with his football fandom amid multiple ongoing crises for the sport, over the danger it presents for players and the NFL\u2019s handling of both players\u2019 misconduct and racial justice protests. Now, even as the country gears up for a pretty Jewish Super Bowl \u2014&nbsp;Sunday\u2019s game features Jewish players, a rarity, on both teams \u2014&nbsp;American Jews are wrestling with just how closely to tune in.<\/p>\n<p>While the love affair between Jews and baseball is firmly established, many American Jews are also avid football fans. Statistically, in terms of TV and in person viewership and personal preference, football is by far the most popular sport in the country, and many of those interviewed by the Jewish Telegraphic Agency compared the activity of getting together with family or friends (in person or virtually, even in the pandemic era) every Sunday for their teams\u2019 once-a-week games to a regular religious ritual.&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Sometimes the sport even interacts with religion.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cI think there was one year where a football game fell on Rosh Hashanah, so [my family] went to services in the morning, and then had the big Rosh Hashanah dinner, and then, you know, watched the football game,\u201d said Philadelphia Eagles fan Amy Schiowitz, who watches her team every week without fail.<br \/>\nBeing a football fan has grown more complicated for many in recent years. First came the mounting evidence that the sport is dangerous: Many players experience a dangerous amount of concussions, and studies have found that they are at risk of traumatic brain injuries, especially one called chronic traumatic encephalopathy.&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>In addition to pain, CTE causes mood swings, memory loss and even suicidal tendencies. Several former players, including the Pro Bowlers Junior Seau and Dave Duerson, have killed themselves in recent decades.<\/p>\n<div id=\"attachment_59455\" style=\"width: 179px\" class=\"wp-caption alignright\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.crescentcityjewishnews.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/2-6-21-yonah-rosenfield.jpg\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-59455\" class=\"wp-image-59455 size-medium lazyload\" data-src=\"https:\/\/www.crescentcityjewishnews.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/2-6-21-yonah-rosenfield-169x300.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"169\" height=\"300\" data-srcset=\"https:\/\/www.crescentcityjewishnews.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/2-6-21-yonah-rosenfield-169x300.jpg 169w, https:\/\/www.crescentcityjewishnews.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/2-6-21-yonah-rosenfield-576x1024.jpg 576w, https:\/\/www.crescentcityjewishnews.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/2-6-21-yonah-rosenfield-768x1365.jpg 768w, https:\/\/www.crescentcityjewishnews.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/2-6-21-yonah-rosenfield-864x1536.jpg 864w, https:\/\/www.crescentcityjewishnews.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/2-6-21-yonah-rosenfield.jpg 900w\" data-sizes=\"(max-width: 169px) 100vw, 169px\" src=\"data:image\/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAAAAACH5BAEKAAEALAAAAAABAAEAAAICTAEAOw==\" style=\"--smush-placeholder-width: 169px; --smush-placeholder-aspect-ratio: 169\/300;\" \/><noscript><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-59455\" class=\"wp-image-59455 size-medium\" src=\"https:\/\/www.crescentcityjewishnews.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/2-6-21-yonah-rosenfield-169x300.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"169\" height=\"300\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.crescentcityjewishnews.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/2-6-21-yonah-rosenfield-169x300.jpg 169w, https:\/\/www.crescentcityjewishnews.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/2-6-21-yonah-rosenfield-576x1024.jpg 576w, https:\/\/www.crescentcityjewishnews.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/2-6-21-yonah-rosenfield-768x1365.jpg 768w, https:\/\/www.crescentcityjewishnews.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/2-6-21-yonah-rosenfield-864x1536.jpg 864w, https:\/\/www.crescentcityjewishnews.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/2-6-21-yonah-rosenfield.jpg 900w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 169px) 100vw, 169px\" \/><\/noscript><\/a><\/p>\n<p id=\"caption-attachment-59455\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Yonah Rosenfield and friends watch football outside under a tarp. (Courtesy of Rosenfield)<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<p>More recently, the NFL has drawn criticism for its handling of two sensitive issues: racial justice protests and domestic violence by its players. In the eyes of many observers and fans, the NFL penalized too lightly several players convicted of physical domestic abuse against their spouses and children, including Tyreek Hill, the star wide receiver of the Kansas City Chiefs, playing in the Super Bowl against the Tampa Bay Buccaneers.<\/p>\n<p>Then there is Colin Kaepernick. After kneeling during the national anthem before games in the 2016 season to protest police brutality against Black men, the star quarterback was effectively blacklisted by the league\u2019s owners, prematurely ending his career. He and a teammate sued the NFL for unfairly colluding to keep them from playing (they settled the case in 2019 under undisclosed terms). Kaepernick became a symbol of anti-patriotic sentiment for some \u2014 including Donald Trump \u2014 and almost a prophet for others who see his protest as predicting the wave of racial justice protests that swept America in 2020.<\/p>\n<p>NBA agent Danielle Cantor Jeweler said the difference between how the NFL and the NBA, the basketball league, handled racial justice protests was one factor that undercut her love for football. In the wake of the killing of George Floyd last year, the NBA encouraged its players to speak out and allowed them to wear Black Lives Matter slogans on their jerseys.<\/p>\n<p>Jeweler, who is one of few women in her field and says her Jewish values guide her career choices, grew up a self-proclaimed \u201cdiehard\u201d Washington Redskins fan in the D.C. area (the team is now temporarily called Washington Football Team as it works toward changing its name after decades of criticism for using a racial epithet). Her family had season tickets and went to \u201cevery home game my whole life,\u201d often tailgating before games. She knew the players\u2019 individual statistics.<\/p>\n<p>But these days, she finds herself watching football much less.&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>\u201cI still watch somewhat, although way less than I used to, and there\u2019s sort of this dissonance when I watch. And I\u2019ve talked to a bunch of people and gotten sort of a range of views on that,\u201d Jeweler said. \u201cIs there a higher Jewish value system that we can hold ourselves to?\u201d<\/p>\n<p>For Rabbanit Leah Sarna, an education director at Drisha, a center for Jewish learning in New York City, the solution to these anxieties is clear-cut: fully stop watching and supporting the sport.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cI would like to see the Jewish community completely divest from football,\u201d she said. \u201cSport gives us a way to relax and helps us to feel pride in our localities\u2026 But the minute you have people getting permanently injured, for my pleasure, that just stops making sense. And the minute it stops making sense, it doesn\u2019t just become, \u2018Oh, you shouldn\u2019t do this.\u2019 It becomes, in my opinion, prohibited by Jewish law.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>In Judaism, the concept of pikuach nefesh prohibits actions that endangers a human life. Sarna said that abandoning football can fall into that category.<\/p>\n<p>Feigelson brought up the analogy of hunting for sport, saying that rabbis have written that that concept connotes senseless violence.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cA sport centered around violence, is really \u2014 there\u2019s something that doesn\u2019t sit right about that. It\u2019s not peaceful, it\u2019s not in keeping with the notion that the ways of Torah are peaceful,\u201d he said.<\/p>\n<p>But not everyone feels that way. After Sarna recently posted on Facebook that she considers tackle football \u201cassur,\u201d the Hebrew word for forbidden, she garnered nearly 200 responses, many of them to counter her assertion. Some argued that other sports are just as dangerous and also cause concussions; others argued that she doesn\u2019t understand the game or its fans. One commenter wrote: \u201cit\u2019s important to acknowledge that there is also a lot of beautiful skill and strategy in the sport. I don\u2019t think many people who love the sport would agree with you that it\u2019s centrally about enjoying violence.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Rabbi Stephen Slater is one of those who sees football as beautiful. He leads the Conservative Temple Beth-El synagogue in Birmingham, Alabama, where many locals end conversations with the phrase \u201cRoll Tide,\u201d an indication of support for the University of Alabama\u2019s Crimson Tide football team. (Slater said he was advised to end his Beth-El interview that way if he wanted to get the job.)&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.crescentcityjewishnews.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/AlabamaCrimsonTide.jpg\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignleft wp-image-59456 size-medium lazyload\" data-src=\"https:\/\/www.crescentcityjewishnews.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/AlabamaCrimsonTide-300x300.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"300\" height=\"300\" data-srcset=\"https:\/\/www.crescentcityjewishnews.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/AlabamaCrimsonTide-300x300.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.crescentcityjewishnews.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/AlabamaCrimsonTide-150x150.jpg 150w, https:\/\/www.crescentcityjewishnews.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/AlabamaCrimsonTide-768x768.jpg 768w, https:\/\/www.crescentcityjewishnews.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/AlabamaCrimsonTide-350x350.jpg 350w, https:\/\/www.crescentcityjewishnews.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/AlabamaCrimsonTide.jpg 1000w\" data-sizes=\"(max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" src=\"data:image\/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAAAAACH5BAEKAAEALAAAAAABAAEAAAICTAEAOw==\" style=\"--smush-placeholder-width: 300px; --smush-placeholder-aspect-ratio: 300\/300;\" \/><noscript><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignleft wp-image-59456 size-medium\" src=\"https:\/\/www.crescentcityjewishnews.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/AlabamaCrimsonTide-300x300.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"300\" height=\"300\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.crescentcityjewishnews.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/AlabamaCrimsonTide-300x300.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.crescentcityjewishnews.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/AlabamaCrimsonTide-150x150.jpg 150w, https:\/\/www.crescentcityjewishnews.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/AlabamaCrimsonTide-768x768.jpg 768w, https:\/\/www.crescentcityjewishnews.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/AlabamaCrimsonTide-350x350.jpg 350w, https:\/\/www.crescentcityjewishnews.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/AlabamaCrimsonTide.jpg 1000w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/noscript><\/a>In his community, there are two choices, and it\u2019s not watching football or not watching \u2014 it\u2019s rooting for either the University of Alabama or its in-state rival, Auburn University. Seeing Tyreek Hill play is like watching the \u201cmost unbelievable feats of dance,\u201d Slater said, arguing that football is a beautiful display of physical skill.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cThe feats of athleticism are just stunning. The sort of total physical engagement it requires. You know, speed, strength, skill, teamwork\u2026 I think we see many of the very best athletes in America are attracted to it,\u201d he said.<\/p>\n<p>Slater added that he thinks the sport\u2019s intensity \u2014 and the intensity with which fans watch it \u2014 is actually a useful outlet.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cAmerican football really looks like a battle, you draw lines, and then you know, charge at each other\u2026 And I think that feeds something in a peaceful way that\u2019s really crucial for society,\u201d he said. \u201cI was captain of my soccer team and that was this massive outlet for all this youthful energy that we had. It was a place to kind of try out our contest of the ego in a sustainable, healthy way.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Yonah Rosenfield, an 18-year-old high school senior, watches \u201cNFL RedZone\u201d \u2014 an NFL Network show designed for fantasy league players that rapidly switches between scoring plays of all the league\u2019s different games \u2014 every Sunday with his friends from the Orthodox SAR school in New York. It\u2019s the main way he stays in close contact with those friends after switching schools, and even during the pandemic, they constructed outdoor setups with a projector so they could watch together in a socially distanced way.<\/p>\n<p>On Sundays, Rosenfield doesn\u2019t think twice about his love for the game. But during the week, when he sees \u201ccompletely degrading\u201d comments about football players on online forums, he feels the weight of the game\u2019s moral conundrum.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cI want to preface my answer with \u2014 I am more morally and ideologically pure than my actual practice. But ideologically, I think that, you know, I would agree with the statement that it\u2019s a brutal sport. And I think that is definitely intertwined with the racial component of the issues. Because the NFL is majority Black,\u201d he said, \u201cand you have a lot of fans who can kind of feel a disconnect from their humanity, in some ways, and can kind of root for them to be gladiators, and to put themselves in harm\u2019s way and have a disconnect.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>The tensions inherent in the sport will be very much on Schiowitz\u2019s mind as she watches the Super Bowl. She remains a devoted football fan, last year participating in three different fantasy leagues and winning two of them. She said she likes drawing connections between the sport and her Jewishness in social media posts. In 2018, for example, she compared all of the players on the Eagles to Passover foods in an amusing Twitter thread.<\/p>\n<p>But the 31-year-old mental health therapist has been speaking out against what she sees as the NFL\u2019s mistakes, especially on social media, where she interacts with a large community of fellow Eagles fans. She\u2019s especially distressed by the fact that Hill is still playing despite admitting to assaulting his pregnant girlfriend in 2014. (He was also later accused of breaking his 3-year-old son\u2019s arm, but police never amassed evidence to prove that.)&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>\u201cCertain events that have played out that just don\u2019t align with what my values are as a Jewish person. So that has been a little bit difficult to reconcile,\u201d she said.<\/p>\n<div style=\"padding-bottom:20px; padding-top:10px;\" class=\"hupso-share-buttons\"><!-- Hupso Share Buttons - https:\/\/www.hupso.com\/share\/ --><a class=\"hupso_toolbar\" href=\"https:\/\/www.hupso.com\/share\/\"><img decoding=\"async\" data-src=\"https:\/\/static.hupso.com\/share\/buttons\/share-medium.png\" style=\"border:0px; padding-top: 5px; float:left;\" alt=\"Share Button\" src=\"data:image\/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAAAAACH5BAEKAAEALAAAAAABAAEAAAICTAEAOw==\" class=\"lazyload\" \/><noscript><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/static.hupso.com\/share\/buttons\/share-medium.png\" style=\"border:0px; padding-top: 5px; float:left;\" alt=\"Share Button\"\/><\/noscript><\/a><script type=\"text\/javascript\">var hupso_services_t=new Array(\"Twitter\",\"Facebook\",\"Google Plus\",\"Pinterest\",\"Linkedin\",\"Tumblr\",\"Email\");var hupso_background_t=\"#EAF4FF\";var hupso_border_t=\"#66CCFF\";var hupso_toolbar_size_t=\"medium\";var hupso_image_folder_url = \"\";var hupso_url_t=\"\";var hupso_title_t=\"%E2%80%98The%20ways%20of%20Torah%20are%20peaceful%E2%80%99%3A%20Why%20football%20presents%20a%20dilemma%20for%20American%20Jews\";<\/script><script type=\"text\/javascript\" src=\"https:\/\/static.hupso.com\/share\/js\/share_toolbar.js\"><\/script><!-- Hupso Share Buttons --><\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"","protected":false},"author":3,"featured_media":59453,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"ngg_post_thumbnail":0,"footnotes":""},"categories":[3,1491],"tags":[6560,8790,8795,8788,8816],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.crescentcityjewishnews.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/59452"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.crescentcityjewishnews.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.crescentcityjewishnews.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.crescentcityjewishnews.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/3"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.crescentcityjewishnews.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=59452"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/www.crescentcityjewishnews.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/59452\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":59457,"href":"https:\/\/www.crescentcityjewishnews.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/59452\/revisions\/59457"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.crescentcityjewishnews.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/59453"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.crescentcityjewishnews.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=59452"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.crescentcityjewishnews.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=59452"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.crescentcityjewishnews.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=59452"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}