{"id":77348,"date":"2023-10-20T15:58:56","date_gmt":"2023-10-20T20:58:56","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.crescentcityjewishnews.com\/?p=77348"},"modified":"2023-10-20T15:59:57","modified_gmt":"2023-10-20T20:59:57","slug":"rav-elations-is-it-ok","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.crescentcityjewishnews.com\/blog\/rav-elations-is-it-ok\/","title":{"rendered":"Rav-Elations!: Is it OK?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>By RABBI DAVID GERBER<\/p>\n<p dir=\"ltr\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.crescentcityjewishnews.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/rabbi_david_gerber_-_talit_2016.jpg\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignleft wp-image-38967 size-thumbnail lazyload\" data-src=\"https:\/\/www.crescentcityjewishnews.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/rabbi_david_gerber_-_talit_2016-150x150.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"150\" height=\"150\" data-srcset=\"https:\/\/www.crescentcityjewishnews.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/rabbi_david_gerber_-_talit_2016-150x150.jpg 150w, https:\/\/www.crescentcityjewishnews.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/rabbi_david_gerber_-_talit_2016-350x350.jpg 350w\" data-sizes=\"(max-width: 150px) 100vw, 150px\" src=\"data:image\/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAAAAACH5BAEKAAEALAAAAAABAAEAAAICTAEAOw==\" style=\"--smush-placeholder-width: 150px; --smush-placeholder-aspect-ratio: 150\/150;\" \/><noscript><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignleft wp-image-38967 size-thumbnail\" src=\"https:\/\/www.crescentcityjewishnews.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/rabbi_david_gerber_-_talit_2016-150x150.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"150\" height=\"150\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.crescentcityjewishnews.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/rabbi_david_gerber_-_talit_2016-150x150.jpg 150w, https:\/\/www.crescentcityjewishnews.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/rabbi_david_gerber_-_talit_2016-350x350.jpg 350w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 150px) 100vw, 150px\" \/><\/noscript><\/a><\/p>\n<p dir=\"ltr\">It\u2019s ok to be angry.<\/p>\n<p dir=\"ltr\">It\u2019s ok to be sad.&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p dir=\"ltr\">It\u2019s ok to be stressed, uneasy, or disgusted.&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p dir=\"ltr\">It\u2019s ok to distract yourself with stress baking, fast food, or reality TV.&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p dir=\"ltr\">It\u2019s ok to be glued to the news stations.&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p dir=\"ltr\">It\u2019s ok to turn them off in disgust.&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p dir=\"ltr\">It\u2019s ok to block friends on social media.<\/p>\n<p dir=\"ltr\">It\u2019s ok to accept support from people you don\u2019t like.&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p dir=\"ltr\">It\u2019s ok to never forgive Hamas; like the wicked Amalek, Haman, and Hitler.<\/p>\n<p dir=\"ltr\">It\u2019s ok to mourn for the suffering of the innocent in Israel and Gaza; both are victims of the same evil.&nbsp;&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p dir=\"ltr\">It\u2019s ok to come to synagogue to pray, talk, or learn.&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p dir=\"ltr\">It\u2019s ok to stay home and support from afar.&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p dir=\"ltr\">It\u2019s ok to rejoice in the gift of Shabbat.&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p dir=\"ltr\">It\u2019s ok to dance the hora at our daughters\u2019 weddings.&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p dir=\"ltr\">It\u2019s ok to find joy in spite of the evil in the world.&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p dir=\"ltr\">It\u2019s ok to question God.&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p dir=\"ltr\">It\u2019s ok to be angry with the Creator of the world we live in.&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p dir=\"ltr\">It\u2019s ok to be ok,<\/p>\n<p dir=\"ltr\">It\u2019s ok to not be ok.&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p dir=\"ltr\">Just be present. Be part of a Jewish community. And through our strength, determination, and support, Am Yisrael Chai. The people of Israel shall live.&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p dir=\"ltr\"><em>Rabbi David Gerber is the senior rabbi of the URJ\u2019s Congregation Gates of Prayer (Sha\u2019arai Tefillah) in Metairie.<\/em><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<div style=\"padding-bottom:20px; padding-top:10px;\" class=\"hupso-share-buttons\"><!-- Hupso Share Buttons - https:\/\/www.hupso.com\/share\/ --><a class=\"hupso_toolbar\" href=\"https:\/\/www.hupso.com\/share\/\"><img decoding=\"async\" data-src=\"https:\/\/static.hupso.com\/share\/buttons\/share-medium.png\" style=\"border:0px; padding-top: 5px; float:left;\" alt=\"Share Button\" src=\"data:image\/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAAAAACH5BAEKAAEALAAAAAABAAEAAAICTAEAOw==\" class=\"lazyload\" \/><noscript><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/static.hupso.com\/share\/buttons\/share-medium.png\" style=\"border:0px; padding-top: 5px; float:left;\" alt=\"Share Button\"\/><\/noscript><\/a><script type=\"text\/javascript\">var hupso_services_t=new Array(\"Twitter\",\"Facebook\",\"Google Plus\",\"Pinterest\",\"Linkedin\",\"Tumblr\",\"Email\");var hupso_background_t=\"#EAF4FF\";var hupso_border_t=\"#66CCFF\";var hupso_toolbar_size_t=\"medium\";var hupso_image_folder_url = \"\";var hupso_url_t=\"\";var hupso_title_t=\"Rav-Elations%21%3A%20Is%20it%20OK%3F\";<\/script><script type=\"text\/javascript\" src=\"https:\/\/static.hupso.com\/share\/js\/share_toolbar.js\"><\/script><!-- Hupso Share Buttons --><\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"","protected":false},"author":3,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"ngg_post_thumbnail":0,"footnotes":""},"categories":[557],"tags":[8790,8795,8788,9520],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.crescentcityjewishnews.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/77348"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.crescentcityjewishnews.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.crescentcityjewishnews.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.crescentcityjewishnews.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/3"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.crescentcityjewishnews.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=77348"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/www.crescentcityjewishnews.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/77348\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":77350,"href":"https:\/\/www.crescentcityjewishnews.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/77348\/revisions\/77350"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.crescentcityjewishnews.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=77348"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.crescentcityjewishnews.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=77348"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.crescentcityjewishnews.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=77348"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}