{"id":84560,"date":"2024-12-06T16:02:21","date_gmt":"2024-12-06T21:02:21","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.crescentcityjewishnews.com\/?p=84560"},"modified":"2024-12-06T17:58:08","modified_gmt":"2024-12-06T22:58:08","slug":"person-in-the-parsha-vayishlach-12","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.crescentcityjewishnews.com\/blog\/person-in-the-parsha-vayishlach-12\/","title":{"rendered":"Person in the Parsha: Vayishlach"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>By RABBI TZVI HERSH WEINREB<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\">\u201c<strong>HE REMEMBERS THE KINDNESSES OF THE FATHERS<\/strong>\u201d&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>This phrase occurs in the very first blessing of the <em>Amidah<\/em>, the eighteen blessings commonly referred to as <em>Shemoneh<\/em><em> Esreh<\/em>, the centerpiece of the prayer service recited in the synagogue at least three times every day. The blessing praises the Patriarchs, Avraham, Yitzchak, and Yaakov, and calls upon the Almighty to take account of their benevolent deeds and to bring us the redemption that we seek as the descendants of the men whose entire lives were models of exemplary loving-kindness.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.crescentcityjewishnews.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/11\/Weinreb_Tzvi.jpg\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignleft wp-image-3975 size-thumbnail lazyload\" data-src=\"https:\/\/www.crescentcityjewishnews.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/11\/Weinreb_Tzvi-150x150.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"150\" height=\"150\" src=\"data:image\/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAAAAACH5BAEKAAEALAAAAAABAAEAAAICTAEAOw==\" style=\"--smush-placeholder-width: 150px; --smush-placeholder-aspect-ratio: 150\/150;\"><noscript><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignleft wp-image-3975 size-thumbnail\" src=\"https:\/\/www.crescentcityjewishnews.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/11\/Weinreb_Tzvi-150x150.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"150\" height=\"150\"><\/noscript><\/a>The blessing is based upon the concept of <em>zechut<\/em><em> avot<\/em>, \u201cthe merit of the fathers.\u201d Children benefit from the good deeds of their parents, and it is legitimate to beseech the Almighty to take note, as it were, of the <em>mitzvot<\/em> and <em>maasim<\/em><em> tovim<\/em> of one\u2019s parents, of their adherence to His commandments and their performance of good deeds.<\/p>\n<p>Calling upon <em>zechut<\/em><em> avot<\/em> is especially warranted when one is in an <em>et<\/em> <em>tzarah<\/em>, extremely dire straits. It is then that one feels utterly helpless and dares not seek divine intervention based on his or her own good deeds. Praying for the merit of the good deeds of our ancestors is then justified and helps assure rescue and salvation.<\/p>\n<p>We find an example of a prayer relying upon <em>zechut<\/em><em> avot<\/em> in this week\u2019s Torah portion, <em>Vayishlach<\/em> (Genesis 32:3-36:43).&nbsp; The person in the <em>parsha<\/em> who offers this prayer is Yaakov himself, who depends upon the merits of his father and grandfather, Yitzchak and Avraham. It is a powerful prayer, motivated by Yaakov\u2019s confrontation with his brother Esav, who, years earlier, threatened to murder him, and who now has his opportunity to execute his dastardly plan. Here are Yaakov\u2019s words, and note how the prayer conveys Yaakov\u2019s desperation:<\/p>\n<p>\u2026God of my father Avraham and God of my father Yitzchak, LORD, You who said to me, \u201cGo back to the land where you were born and I will deal well with you.\u201d I am unworthy of all the kindnesses and the faithfulness that You have bestowed upon Your servant\u2026 Rescue me, I pray, from my brother\u2019s hand, from the hand of Esav.&nbsp; I am afraid that he will come and kill us all, mothers and children alike. (Genesis 32:9-11)<\/p>\n<p>Yaakov\u2019s intent is apparent.&nbsp; He is petitioning the Almighty to defend him against his murderous brother. In doing so, he hopes that the fact that he is a son and a grandson of Yitzchak and Avraham will stand him in good stead. He seems confident that the merits of his ancestors will accrue to his cause, and he will survive, and perhaps even overcome, Esav.<\/p>\n<p>It is here that I have the privilege of sharing with you a question posed by a Chassidic master of the late nineteenth and early twentieth century. His name was Rabbi Avraham Bornstein, and he was the rabbi of a town called Sochachov, Poland. He authored several works, including one called <em>Avnei<\/em><em> Nezer<\/em>, a collection of his halachic responsa which also contains much of his ideology and personal anecdotes. He is generally referred to as \u201cthe\u201d Avnei Nezer or as the Sochachover Rebbe.<\/p>\n<p>He is troubled by Yaakov\u2019s prayer, the one referenced above. After all, Yaakov seems sure that he has Avraham and Yitzchak on his side, whereas Esav is denied that access to his ancestors even through his prayers. But, as the Sochachover Rabbe insists, is Esav not also a son of Avraham and Yitzchak? Is he not entitled to call upon the <em>zechut<\/em><em> avot<\/em> of his father and grandfather? Does he not enjoy the exact same ancestral rewards of which Yaakov is so certain?<\/p>\n<p>As is often the custom of rabbinic commentators, the Rebbe prefaces his answer with another question. \u201cWhy,\u201d he asks, \u201cwas Yaakov so frightened by his encounter with Esav? Did Yaakov not have the Almighty\u2019s own promise that He would keep Yaakov safe?\u201d<\/p>\n<p>To that, the Rebbe responds in a most interesting fashion. He suggests that Yaakov feared Esav because of Esav\u2019s two great merits. For one thing, Esav dwelled in <em>Eretz Yisrael<\/em>, in the Land of Israel. Just residing in the Holy Land is in and of itself a <em>mitzvah<\/em>. Yaakov had been absent from <em>Eretz Yisrael<\/em> for quite a few years and had just returned there at that point.<\/p>\n<p>Secondly, Esav had cared for his father Yitzchak in a manner far more impressive than did Yaakov. Esav thus had the additional merit of <em>kibud<\/em><em> av<\/em>, of honoring one\u2019s father, one of the Ten Commandments and a very special <em>mitzvah<\/em> indeed.<\/p>\n<p>The Rebbe continues his line of thought by pointing out that the holy Land of Israel does not tolerate residents who commit idolatry, adultery, and cause bloodshed. Perhaps Esav, who committed all three cardinal sins, was denied the merit of dwelling in<em>Eretz Yisrael<\/em>. The Torah itself emphasizes that the Holy Land \u201cspits out\u201d its evil inhabitants.<\/p>\n<p>The Rebbe resolves this difficulty by magnifying the <em>mitzvah<\/em> of <em>kibud<\/em> <em>av<\/em>. Honoring one\u2019s father who himself resides in the Land of Israel, as Yitzchak did, allows even sinners of the worst kind to remain in the Holy Land and not be dispelled therefrom.<\/p>\n<p>Why, then, did Yaakov not consider Esav to be entitled to <em>zechut<\/em><em> avot<\/em>? It is here that the Rebbe resorts to an answer he heard from his father-in law, who was the famous \u201cKotzker,\u201d Rabbi Menachem Mendel of Kotzk. The Kotzker provides us with a basic definition of the limits of <em>zechut<\/em> <em>avot<\/em>. \u201c<em>Zechut<\/em><em> avot<\/em> only applies to those who follow the path of their ancestors.\u201d Despite dwelling in <em>Eretz Yisrael<\/em>, and despite all the respect he showed his father, Esav most decidedly did not follow Yitzchak\u2019s path of righteousness and piety. He could not access his father\u2019s and grandfather\u2019s merits because he failed to emulate their ways of life.<\/p>\n<p>Yaakov did model himself after his father and grandfather to the best of his ability. That entitled him to call upon the God of Yitzchak and the God of Avraham in his prayers.&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>This is a lesson for us all, especially at the current juncture of our history. We must strive to emulate our Patriarchs and Matriarchs and thereby qualify to vie for their <em>zechut<\/em><em> avot v\u2019imahot<\/em>.<\/p>\n<p>I conclude with the poetic translation of one of the blessings subsequent to the morning recitation of the <em>Shema<\/em>. It was composed by the late, and sorely lamented, Rabbi Jonathan Sacks:<\/p>\n<p>\u201cHis words live and persist,<br \/>\n\u201cfaithful and desirable<br \/>\n\u201cfor ever and all time.<br \/>\n\u201cSo they were for our ancestors,<br \/>\n\u201cas they are for us,<br \/>\n\u201cand as they will be for our children<br \/>\n\u201cand all our generations<br \/>\n\u201cand for all future generations<br \/>\n\u201cof the seed of Israel, Your servants.\u201d<\/p>\n<div style=\"padding-bottom:20px; padding-top:10px;\" class=\"hupso-share-buttons\"><!-- Hupso Share Buttons - https:\/\/www.hupso.com\/share\/ --><a class=\"hupso_toolbar\" href=\"https:\/\/www.hupso.com\/share\/\"><img decoding=\"async\" data-src=\"https:\/\/static.hupso.com\/share\/buttons\/share-medium.png\" style=\"border:0px; padding-top: 5px; float:left;\" alt=\"Share Button\" src=\"data:image\/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAAAAACH5BAEKAAEALAAAAAABAAEAAAICTAEAOw==\" class=\"lazyload\" \/><noscript><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/static.hupso.com\/share\/buttons\/share-medium.png\" style=\"border:0px; padding-top: 5px; float:left;\" alt=\"Share Button\"\/><\/noscript><\/a><script type=\"text\/javascript\">var hupso_services_t=new Array(\"Twitter\",\"Facebook\",\"Google Plus\",\"Pinterest\",\"Linkedin\",\"Tumblr\",\"Email\");var hupso_background_t=\"#EAF4FF\";var hupso_border_t=\"#66CCFF\";var hupso_toolbar_size_t=\"medium\";var hupso_image_folder_url = \"\";var hupso_url_t=\"\";var hupso_title_t=\"Person%20in%20the%20Parsha%3A%20Vayishlach\";<\/script><script type=\"text\/javascript\" src=\"https:\/\/static.hupso.com\/share\/js\/share_toolbar.js\"><\/script><!-- Hupso Share Buttons --><\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"","protected":false},"author":3,"featured_media":3975,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"ngg_post_thumbnail":0,"footnotes":""},"categories":[557],"tags":[8790,8795,8788,560,556,859,1326],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.crescentcityjewishnews.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/84560"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.crescentcityjewishnews.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.crescentcityjewishnews.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.crescentcityjewishnews.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/3"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.crescentcityjewishnews.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=84560"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/www.crescentcityjewishnews.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/84560\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":84561,"href":"https:\/\/www.crescentcityjewishnews.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/84560\/revisions\/84561"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.crescentcityjewishnews.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/3975"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.crescentcityjewishnews.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=84560"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.crescentcityjewishnews.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=84560"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.crescentcityjewishnews.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=84560"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}