{"id":90876,"date":"2025-12-19T16:53:55","date_gmt":"2025-12-19T21:53:55","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.crescentcityjewishnews.com\/?p=90876"},"modified":"2025-12-20T20:47:27","modified_gmt":"2025-12-21T01:47:27","slug":"the-most-australian-name-matilda-the-youngest-victim-of-the-bondi-beach-attack-embodies-a-nations-grief","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.crescentcityjewishnews.com\/blog\/the-most-australian-name-matilda-the-youngest-victim-of-the-bondi-beach-attack-embodies-a-nations-grief\/","title":{"rendered":"\u2018The most Australian name\u2019: Matilda, the youngest victim of the Bondi Beach attack, embodies a nation\u2019s grief"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>By GRACE GILSON<\/p>\n<p>(JTA) \u2014 The youngest victim of the Bondi Beach Chanukah massacre is known by just one name \u2014 but it\u2019s all that\u2019s needed to make her a symbol for her fellow Australians.<\/p>\n<div id=\"attachment_90877\" style=\"width: 310px\" class=\"wp-caption alignleft\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.crescentcityjewishnews.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/12\/memorial.avif\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-90877\" class=\"wp-image-90877\" src=\"https:\/\/www.crescentcityjewishnews.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/12\/memorial.avif\" alt=\"\" width=\"300\" height=\"167\"><\/a><\/p>\n<p id=\"caption-attachment-90877\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">A portrait of 10-year-old Matilda, victim of the Bondi Beach shooting, sits on a flower memorial beside Bondi Pavilion on December 17, 2025 in Sydney, Australia. (James D. Morgan\/Getty Images)<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<p>\u201cI named her Matilda because she was our firstborn in Australia. And I thought that Matilda was the most Australian name that could ever exist,\u201d her father Michael, a Jewish immigrant from Ukraine, said at a vigil earlier in the week. \u201cSo just remember \u2013 remember her name.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>The poem and song \u201cWaltzing Matilda,\u201d written in 1895, is considered an unofficial anthem in Australia, which has been rocked by the terror attack on Bondi Beach that killed 15 people attending a Chanukah celebration.<\/p>\n<p>At a vigil on Thursday night at Bondi Pavilion \u2014 a public space now transformed into a memorial flooded with flowers and displays of solidarity \u2014 hundreds of mourners gathered and sang the song to memorialize Matilda, who at 10 was the youngest among the dead.<\/p>\n<p><iframe loading=\"lazy\" title=\"Australians sing &#039;Waltzing Matilda&#039;, mourning youngest Bondi victim | REUTERS\" width=\"500\" height=\"281\" data-src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/U52AfCqj-LI?feature=oembed\" frameborder=\"0\" allow=\"accelerometer; autoplay; clipboard-write; encrypted-media; gyroscope; picture-in-picture; web-share\" referrerpolicy=\"strict-origin-when-cross-origin\" allowfullscreen src=\"data:image\/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAAAAACH5BAEKAAEALAAAAAABAAEAAAICTAEAOw==\" class=\"lazyload\" data-load-mode=\"1\"><\/iframe><\/p>\n<p>Matilda had been filmed shortly before the attack admiring as her father put on tefillin, the phylacteries used in prayer that emissaries of Chabad, the group that organized the Chanukah celebration, routinely help Jewish men put on to fulfill a religious commandment. She was shot while standing with her mother Valentyna and 6-year-old sister.<\/p>\n<p>Seeking to protect their privacy, the family has asked that their last name not be published in the media. Instead, Matilda has become associated her middle name, Bee.<\/p>\n<div id=\"attachment_90878\" style=\"width: 310px\" class=\"wp-caption alignright\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.crescentcityjewishnews.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/12\/balloons.avif\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-90878\" class=\"wp-image-90878\" src=\"https:\/\/www.crescentcityjewishnews.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/12\/balloons.avif\" alt=\"\" width=\"300\" height=\"167\"><\/a><\/p>\n<p id=\"caption-attachment-90878\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">People carry balloons as they arrive for the funeral of 10-year-old Matilda, who was killed in the December 14 Bondi Beach shooting attack, in Sydney on December 18, 2025. (David Gray\/AFP via Getty Images)<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<p>At the somber memorial, all of the attendees were given stickers with Matilda\u2019s name alongside a smiling bumblebee clutching a menorah, a symbol that has become a quiet emblem of remembrance in the days since her death.<\/p>\n<p>At her funeral on Thursday, held at the Chevra Kadisha Memorial Hall, mourners clutched bee balloons and placed bee posters on the exterior of their cars.<\/p>\n<p>A giant plush bumblebee was placed on Matilda\u2019s small white casket at the funeral, one similar to the many that now adorn the Bondi Pavilion flower memorial alongside illustrations of bumblebees.<\/p>\n<p>On social media, parents and schools around the world have posted children\u2019s illustrations and photos of bees at the request of Matilda\u2019s parents, a tribute that has spread widely as a way of remembering her. On Facebook, Matilda\u2019s father, Michael, has reposted many of the online memorials.<\/p>\n<p>Build a Bear Workshop Australia also announced the production of a limited-edition plush bee in memory of Matilda, with all proceeds going to her family. A GoFundMe page set up by her language teacher has also drawn over $550,000 in donations.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cShe loved the outdoors, animals, she went to school, she had friends, everybody loved her,\u201d Rabbi Yehoram Ulman, whose son-in-law, Rabbi Eli Schlanger, was also killed in the attack, said during his eulogy for Matilda. \u201cThe tragic, so totally cruel, an unfathomable murder of young Matilda is something that\u2019s painful to all of us as if our own daughter was taken from us.\u201d<\/p>\n<div id=\"attachment_90879\" style=\"width: 310px\" class=\"wp-caption alignleft\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.crescentcityjewishnews.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/12\/valentyna.avif\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-90879\" class=\"wp-image-90879\" src=\"https:\/\/www.crescentcityjewishnews.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/12\/valentyna.avif\" alt=\"\" width=\"300\" height=\"167\"><\/a><\/p>\n<p id=\"caption-attachment-90879\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Valentyna, the mother of shooting victim, 10-year-old Matilda, addresses members of the public during a candlelight vigil at Bondi Pavilion at Bondi Beach on December 16, 2025 in Sydney, Australia. (Audrey Richardson\/Getty Images)<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<p>Valentyna said at the vigil that until Sunday, she had been happy that her family had moved from Ukraine, which has been at war with Russia since Russia invaded in 2022.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cI came from Ukraine. I brought from Ukraine my oldest son, with him, and I was so happy that he\u2019s not there right now. He\u2019s not fighting for his land, and he\u2019s safe here,\u201d she said as she broke down in sobs. \u201cI couldn\u2019t imagine I would lose my daughter here.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Chris Minns, the premier of New South Wales, the Australian state that includes Sydney, quoted from \u201cWaltzing Matilda\u201d at Matilda\u2019s funeral.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cShe bore the name Matilda to honor this great land, Australia\u2019s heart and spirit forever hand in hand,\u201d said Minns, who wore the bumblebee sticker on his lapel, according to ABC. \u201cHer spirit like a swagman\u2019s will never fade away. 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