{"id":95684,"date":"2026-09-29T06:03:25","date_gmt":"2026-09-29T11:03:25","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.crescentcityjewishnews.com\/blog\/?p=95684"},"modified":"2026-09-29T06:03:25","modified_gmt":"2026-09-29T11:03:25","slug":"stephen-sondheim-was-jewish-but-was-his-a-jewish-life","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.crescentcityjewishnews.com\/blog\/stephen-sondheim-was-jewish-but-was-his-a-jewish-life\/","title":{"rendered":"Stephen Sondheim was Jewish, but was his a \u2018Jewish Life\u2019?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>By ANDREW SILOW-CARROLL<\/p>\n<p>(JTA) \u2014&nbsp;When Daniel Okrent first proposed writing a biography of Stephen Sondheim for the Yale Jewish Lives series, he had a warning for his publisher.<\/p>\n<div id=\"attachment_95685\" style=\"width: 310px\" class=\"wp-caption alignleft\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.crescentcityjewishnews.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/09\/GettyImages-3263025.avif\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-95685\" class=\"wp-image-95685\" src=\"https:\/\/www.crescentcityjewishnews.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/09\/GettyImages-3263025.avif\" alt=\"\" width=\"300\" height=\"169\"><\/a><\/p>\n<p id=\"caption-attachment-95685\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Stephen Sondheim shown in London ahead of the premiere of &#8220;Side by Side by Sondheim,&#8221; a West End musical revue celebrating his catalogue, April 2, 1976. (R. Jones\/Evening Standard\/Getty Images)<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<p>\u201cI would love to write about Sondheim if you\u2019re interested, but I have to tell you that he was not in any way, in any remote way, a practicing Jew,\u201d Okrent recalled saying.<\/p>\n<p>The people at Jewish Lives were unfazed \u2014 that is, until he turned in his manuscript.&nbsp;&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>\u201cThey said, \u2018Could we have a little bit more Jewish stuff in there?\u2019\u201d<\/p>\n<p>I can sympathize. It can be tricky to write about famous, highly assimilated Jews like Sondheim, for whom Jewishness did not seem to be a significant part of their private identity or what made them famous. In writing an obituary, for example, there\u2019s a risk of \u201cclaiming\u201d someone as Jewish in ways they might have rejected, or of forcing their life into a Jewish narrative in a way that seems artificial or exaggerated.&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>And yet, Okrent argues, Sondheim was unmistakably Jewish.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cI look at it as a form of Americanized Yiddishkeit: his nature, his worldview, his sense of humor,\u201d said Okrent in an interview last week. \u201cTo me, also having grown up as a pretty areligious Jew, that felt very Jewish.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Okrent, a journalist and former public editor of The New York Times whose previous books include histories of prohibition and U.S. immigration policy,&nbsp; wrote \u201cStephen Sondheim: Art Isn\u2019t Easy\u201d as an unabashed fan.&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>\u201cI wanted to understand the life through the work and the work through the life,\u201d he told me. The book chronicles the friendships, rivalries and personal demons that informed Sondheim\u2019s unmatched contribution to the American musical, from the lyrics he wrote for \u201cWest Side Story\u201d and \u201cGypsy\u201d to the scores and lyrics he composed for canonical shows like \u201cCompany,\u201d \u201cA Little Night Music,\u201d \u201cSweeney Todd\u201d and \u201cSunday in the Park with George.\u201d&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>And while Sondheim, who died in 2023 at age 91, spent a lifetime denying it, Okrent concluded that his life and art were \u201cintimately intertwined,\u201d and that his shows were often autobiographical.<\/p>\n<p>With the exception of a handful of musicals, \u201ceverything else reflects his life, his feelings, his triumphs, his failures,\u201d said Okrent.&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>That includes \u201cSweeney Todd,\u201d the ghoulish, operatic story of a deranged barber who kills his customers and serves them up as meat pies. When Judy Prince, wife of his longtime collaborator Hal Prince, told Sondheim that \u201cSweeney Todd\u201d was the story of his life, Sondheim agreed.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cWhat did he see in that? Revenge,\u201d said Okrent. Sondheim understood what it was to hold a grudge \u2014 against critics, notably, and anyone else who suggested his shows were too elitist, too cool or (and this galled him to the degree that he wrote a song about it) not \u201chummable.\u201d&nbsp;&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>What almost never appears in his shows or music, however, is a Jewish theme or character, at least explicitly so. And when they do appear \u2014 notably as theatrical producers in shows like \u201cGypsy\u201d and \u201cMerrily We Roll Along\u201d \u2014 they reflect the main way Sondheim himself claimed his Jewishness.&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>When asked about his Jewish identity by the journalist Abigail Pogrebin for her 2005 book \u201cStars of David,\u201d Sondheim said, \u201cIt\u2019s very deep. It\u2019s the fact that so many of the people that I admire in the arts are Jewish. And art is as close to a religion as I have.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>The future composer grew up on New York\u2019s Upper West Side; his parents, Herbert and Etta, known as Foxy, were prominent in the dressmaking business. They belonged to Temple Emanu-El, the socially prominent Reform synagogue on the East Side. After their divorce when Sondheim was 10, he moved with his mother to a Pennsylvania exurb not far from the lyricist Oscar Hammerstein, who became a surrogate father and musical mentor. &nbsp;<\/p>\n<div id=\"attachment_95686\" style=\"width: 2170px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.crescentcityjewishnews.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/09\/daniel-okrent-book-leo-sorel-yale-university-pressjpg.avif\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-95686\" class=\"wp-image-95686 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/www.crescentcityjewishnews.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/09\/daniel-okrent-book-leo-sorel-yale-university-pressjpg.avif\" alt=\"\" width=\"2160\" height=\"1200\"><\/a><\/p>\n<p id=\"caption-attachment-95686\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Daniel Okrent describes Stephen Sondheim\u2019s Jewish identity as a\u201dform of Americanized Yiddishkeit.\u201d (Yale University Press; Leo Sorel)<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<p>Hammerstein was himself only one-quarter Jewish by ancestry but is, as Okrent notes, now included in the pantheon of Jews who helped create the Broadway musical as we know it.<\/p>\n<p>Sondheim sought Hammerstein\u2019s counsel until his mentor\u2019s death in 1960. When an up-and-coming Sondheim balked at an offer to write the lyrics for \u201cGypsy,\u201d saying he wanted to compose as well as write lyrics, Hammerstein convinced him that it was an unmissable opportunity to learn how to write for a star \u2014 in this case, the Broadway legend Ethel Merman.&nbsp;&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Before that, there was a stint in military school, which Okrent writes that he loved, and math and music studies at the WASP-y WIlliams College, where the Jewish kid was blackballed from a fraternity. Having had no religious schooling or bar mitzvah, Sondheim once asked his Jewish roommate, \u201cAm I even Jewish?\u201d Okrent quotes musicologist Steven Swayne: Sondheim may have been \u201c\u2018a Jew to the goyim,\u2019 but not to himself.\u2019\u201d<\/p>\n<p>And yet, Sondheim\u2019s professional world would become saturated with Jewishness.<\/p>\n<p>He teamed up with Leonard Bernstein, Arthur Laurents and Jerome Robbins, three other gay Jewish men, on \u201cWest Side Story.\u201d In addition to Prince, he created shows with Jule Styne, John Weidman, James Lapine and Larry Gelbart.<\/p>\n<p>But Sondheim did not appear to approach his work by looking for Jewish stories, even when others were mining hits from the Jewish past (\u201cFiddler on the Roof\u201d), the birth of Israel (\u201cMilk and Honey\u201d) and even the Holocaust (\u201cCabaret\u201d).&nbsp;&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>\u201cHe never would have said, \u2018I want to find a show that has, you know, a Jewish theme,\u2019 any more than he said, \u2018I want to find a show that has a cowboy theme,\u2019\u201d Okrent said. \u201cIt\u2019s just not the way he went about his work.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Instead, stories usually came to him through collaborators. \u201cSweeney Todd\u201d and \u201cPassion,\u201d one of his last shows, were among the exceptions.&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Others have attempted to locate Sondheim on the spectrum of Jewishness. Okrent mentions a course given in 2022 at the 92nd Street Y, \u201cSondheim and the Torah.\u201d The theater scholar Gabrielle Hoyt, in a 2022 paper, also sees Jewish themes in many of his shows: \u201cthe line between vengeance and justice\u201d in \u201cSweeney Todd\u201d; the \u201cboundaries of community\u201d in \u201cCompany\u201d; the \u201cisolation of the prophet\u201d in the 1960s flop \u201cAnyone Can Whistle.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Hoyt also compares Sondheim\u2019s eagerness to nurture young talent to that of a rabbi. Okrent writes about the young composers and lyricists Sondheim mentored, including Jonathan Larson, Adam Guettel, Lin-Manuel Miranda and \u201cSouth Park\u201d creators Trey Parker and Matt Stone, whom he encouraged during their work on \u201cThe Book of Mormon.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cHe provided really substantive criticism for those who came to him for help and with whom he built relationships,\u201d said Okrent.&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Okrent, who co-created the 2012 stage revue \u201cOld Jews Telling Jokes,\u201d chuckled when I compared Sondheim\u2019s Jewishness to the metaphysical joke about a fish. \u201cHow\u2019s the water?\u201d an old fish asks a young fish. \u201cWhat the hell is water?\u201d says the young fish.&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Sondheim, agreed Okrent, may have been so deeply immersed in a Jewish milieu that he rarely thought about it, or bothered to craft a carefully worked-out theory, like so many others, as to why Jews thrived on Broadway.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cI suppose if he interrogated himself about it, he probably would have. But I don\u2019t know. I can\u2019t say that with certainty,\u201d Okrent acknowledged.<\/p>\n<p>Sometimes, Sondheim did notice the water. Okrent recalls that he was proud of \u201cA Little Night Music,\u201d his hit adaptation of the Swedish director Ingmar Bergman\u2019s film \u201cSmiles of a Summer Night.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cBut I don\u2019t know if I really like it,\u201d Sondheim told the Jewish playwright Jules Feiffer. \u201cIt\u2019s so damn goyische.\u201d<\/p>\n<div style=\"padding-bottom:20px; padding-top:10px;\" class=\"hupso-share-buttons\"><!-- Hupso Share Buttons - https:\/\/www.hupso.com\/share\/ --><a class=\"hupso_toolbar\" href=\"https:\/\/www.hupso.com\/share\/\"><img decoding=\"async\" data-src=\"https:\/\/static.hupso.com\/share\/buttons\/share-medium.png\" style=\"border:0px; padding-top: 5px; float:left;\" alt=\"Share Button\" src=\"data:image\/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAAAAACH5BAEKAAEALAAAAAABAAEAAAICTAEAOw==\" class=\"lazyload\" \/><noscript><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/static.hupso.com\/share\/buttons\/share-medium.png\" style=\"border:0px; padding-top: 5px; float:left;\" alt=\"Share Button\"\/><\/noscript><\/a><script type=\"text\/javascript\">var hupso_services_t=new Array(\"Twitter\",\"Facebook\",\"Google Plus\",\"Pinterest\",\"Linkedin\",\"Tumblr\",\"Email\");var hupso_background_t=\"#EAF4FF\";var hupso_border_t=\"#66CCFF\";var hupso_toolbar_size_t=\"medium\";var hupso_image_folder_url = \"\";var hupso_url_t=\"\";var hupso_title_t=\"Stephen%20Sondheim%20was%20Jewish%2C%20but%20was%20his%20a%20%E2%80%98Jewish%20Life%E2%80%99%3F\";<\/script><script type=\"text\/javascript\" src=\"https:\/\/static.hupso.com\/share\/js\/share_toolbar.js\"><\/script><!-- Hupso Share Buttons --><\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"","protected":false},"author":3,"featured_media":95685,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"ngg_post_thumbnail":0,"footnotes":""},"categories":[3,7122],"tags":[8792,15406,8790,8795,8788,15405],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.crescentcityjewishnews.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/95684"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.crescentcityjewishnews.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.crescentcityjewishnews.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.crescentcityjewishnews.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/3"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.crescentcityjewishnews.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=95684"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/www.crescentcityjewishnews.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/95684\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":95687,"href":"https:\/\/www.crescentcityjewishnews.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/95684\/revisions\/95687"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.crescentcityjewishnews.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/95685"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.crescentcityjewishnews.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=95684"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.crescentcityjewishnews.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=95684"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.crescentcityjewishnews.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=95684"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}