Feeling with others -- not just for them -- awakens the soul. Discover how empathy bridges hearts and reveals our shared humanity.

A study on postoperative pain found that patients spoken to gently and empathetically by their anesthetist needed half as much pain medication and recovered days sooner. This healing power of empathy isn't limited to hospitals -- it transforms every relationship we touch. Empathy, it turns out, doesn't just ease the heart -- it helps the body heal. This is the quiet spiritual power we all possess: feeling another's pain, bridging the distance between souls, awakening something essential within us. This week, we'll explore what empathy truly means, why it asks so much of us, and how we can grow to become not merely more sympathetic, but more empathetic.

✨3 Ideas

1. Recognizing Our Oneness

Sympathy watches pain from afar; empathy steps inside it. Sympathy says, “I feel sorry for you.” Empathy whispers, “I feel with you.”

Empathy is the spiritual art of entering another’s world -- seeing with their eyes, hearing with their heart.

To empathize is to bridge the quiet space between souls, carrying part of another’s burden as your own. Empathy begins when we stop seeing others as “other,” and remember we are one.

2. The Challenge: Empathy Requires Effort

Empathy is difficult. We greet people with “How are you?” But rarely want the truth.

True empathy requires humility, imagination and courage.

We avoid the broken heart because it’s hard to witness. This spiritual numbness isn’t malicious -- it’s protective. Our spiritual challenge: To live with an open heart in a world full of suffering requires courage and intentionality to carry our friend’s burden.

Know someone carrying a heavy burden? Forward this to them. Sometimes the most profound act of empathy is letting someone know they’re truly seen.

3. Growing Empathy in Our Soul

Empathy is an act of the soul -- a spiritual muscle we can strengthen. It grows through full intention, honest questions and deeds that lighten another’s load.

The soul knows: “He ain’t heavy -- he’s my brother. 

Sharing in sorrow, rejoicing in the success of another -- each deepens the heart. Spiritually, empathy flows from recognizing the intrinsic oneness of humanity and the universe. To empathize is to act from that oneness -- the soul speaking through empathy.

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📜2 Quotes

“Do not oppress a stranger; you know the feelings of a stranger, for you were strangers in the land of Egypt.” -- Exodus 23:9

“You never really understand a person until you climb into his skin and walk around in it” -- Atticus Finch, To Kill a Mockingbird

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❓1 Question

When have you felt the difference between sympathy and empathy?

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Empathy transcends sympathy -- it’s the soul’s recognition that another’s burden is also our own. Each act of empathy; a listening ear, a shared tear, a burden carried together sends ripples through the world. The soul speaks through empathy, reminding us that no one walks alone.

Until next time,
May you feel with others deeply, and may empathy awaken your soul.

Rabbi Ze'ev Smason

P.S. When have you felt the difference between someone feeling sorry FOR you versus someone feeling WITH you? I’d love to hear your story. And if these weekly sparks bring light to your Thursdays, consider sharing with others seeking deeper meaning by forwarding them this email. Each soul we reach expands our circle of life someone who truly knows how to feel with others.

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